Our ceremony will be officiated by Rabbi Helene Ferris. She will explain the various traditions as we go along to make all guests feel welcome.
Here are some Jewish wedding traditions you will likely see..
The Chuppah
“Chuppah” translates to canopy or covering- it is the piece of cloth and supporting poles that surround the bride and groom during their vows and symbolizes the home they will create together.
Ketubah Signing
The ketubah is the equivalent of a Jewish marriage contract (a legally binding one!) that states the husband’s responsibilities to his wife, but more modern ketubot reflect the equal emotional and material responsibilities of both partners. It is signed by two witnesses and read during the ceremony. Later it is displayed prominently in the couple’s home.
Wedding Prayers
The “seven blessings,” or Sheva Brachot, are recited by the rabbi during the ceremony.
Exchanging of the Rings
In Jewish law, a marriage becomes official when the groom gives an object of value to the bride- the ring. He places the ring on her right index finger and recites the declaration, “Behold, you are consecrated to me with this ring according to the law of Moses and Israel.” The bride presents a ring to the groom, often with the quote, “I am my beloved’s and my beloved is mine.”
Breaking of the Glass
At the end of the ceremony, the groom shatters a glass (or lightbulb, as it is easier to break and makes a louder sound!) with his foot. This serves as a reminder of the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem. Some say this is the last time the groom “gets to put his foot down.” With the ceremony complete, the couple leaves the chuppah together to shouts of “Mazel Tov!” from family and friends.